城市寄养儿童家庭教育存在的问题与启示

摘要

随着城市80后独生子女为人父为人母，工作环境竞争的日益激烈，越来越多的年轻父母或因为工作压力大，或因为逃避养育责任等选择把孩子交给保姆或孩子的祖父母、外祖父母甚至其他亲戚代为抚养，这种代为抚养的儿童称为“城市寄养儿童”。和完整家庭的孩子相比，寄养儿童的家庭教育在一定程度上是不完整的，尤其在心理情感、教育内容和教育观念等方面存在严重问题，提前建立抚养人和寄养儿童的感情、强化抚养人的家庭功能以及强化学校对寄养儿童的教育与关怀是解决城市寄养儿童家庭教育问题的主要途径。%when single children who born in 80’s turn to parents,work competition becomes toug-her.More and more young parents send their children to be adopted by children’s nurse,their grappa, grappa in law,or other relation people.It was called Adopted Children in City.Compare with children in their own family,adopted children don’t have education completely,and there are big problem,espe-cially in psychological,education content and education concept,set up ahead of time to raise and A-dopted children’s feelings,strengthen the supporter of family functions and strengthening school educa-tion and care for children is the main way to solve the problem of education Adopted Children in City.