个人主义视域下农村青年婚姻“啃老”现象探究--以黑龙江省D村为例

摘要

In the transition period of society, the “NEET” phenomena is very common,the youth’s parents need to provide house and high bride in their marriage,in essence,which is a kind of “NEET”. We view it at the sight of individualism, as lacking the basis core values of individualism that is independence and self-reliance,the youth’s behavior is extremely selfish. Rural parents have the ethics of responsibility that they should help their son married,the young people “without thinking” led them lack the concept of balanced rights and obligations,and these two aspects together contributed to the rural youth ’s“NEET” phenomena in marriage. At the sight of individualism,the approach to solve this social problem is to nurture the modern citizens who have the subjective consciousness.%　　在社会转型期，“啃老”这一现象较为普遍。农村男青年在婚姻中需要父母提供住房以及高额的彩礼，实质上是一种“啃老”。以个人主义的视域观之，青年人由于缺乏作为个人主义核心价值基础的独立自主与自力更生的意识，其行为表现极度自私。农村父母将为儿子完婚视为自己的一种责任，青年人的“无思”导致其缺乏权利与义务相平衡的观念，这两方面的因素共同促成了农村男青年婚姻“啃老”现象的发生。个人主义视域下，破解这一社会问题的进路在于培育具备主体意识的现代公民。