Report on the Cultural Intelligence Seminar on Afghan Perceptions (War on Terrorism Studies: Report 5)

摘要

A Cultural Intelligence Seminar on Afghan Perceptions was conducted on December 17, 2001 at the Potomac Institute for Policy Studies in Arlington, VA. Approximately twelve Afghans and Afghan-Americans participated in the seminar representing a mix of the tribal affiliations that will make up the post-Taliban interim government. Some participants have advised members of the interim government, and Prime Minister-Designate Karzai's first cousin attended. The Deputy Prime Minister desired to attend but was called away on other business. When dealing with Afghans, the concepts of honor and dignity must be observed. If these are shown to an Afghan, he (or she) will reciprocate in kind. It is a poor but proud country. Pride is a key concept. Afghans do not react well to condescension and are sensitive to perceived arrogance on the part of foreigners. An attitude of mutual respect is advised. The concept of hospitality is very important to Afghans. They will die to defend a guest. Acting like a good guest is probably the best advice one can give in dealing with Afghans. Respect for elders, including even low status individuals like beggars, is key in Afghan society. Age equates with respect regardless of social status or gender. Women head the real fabric of the household and wield considerably more influence than the Taliban experience would dictate. Afghans are very conservative about women by Western standards, and the abusive treatment of women by the Taliban is not the norm. Several do's and don'ts regarding women were offered: Don't touch women under any circumstances. Even a handshake or friendly pat on the shoulder is considered to be overly familiar and out of place. Treat women as you would your mother. Show respect and deference. Never enter an Afghan house without asking permission; this is particularly true if women are present. Also, males should never enter the house unless there is a male present.