Gentleness in pastoral care as a way of bringing healing to congregations within a culture of harshness.

摘要

Experiences in South Africa and the United States have raised my awareness of the need for a Christian response to the abuse and violence that has crept into our culture. Encountering the contribution of gentleness in healing in Gestalt Pastoral Care, and understanding the nature of gentleness as "fruit" of God's Spirit, has pointed to its role in bringing healing from abuse and violence to communities as well as individuals. This project illuminates the contribution a gentle style of pastoral ministry makes toward the health and healing of congregations whose identity and response to the Gospel has been shaped by the culture of harshness associated with the early coal mining industry.; The project uses a narrative method to explore the nature of gentleness with its biblical and theological roots. It reflects on the way the harsh history of the anthracite area has shaped the attitudes and actions of members of the United Methodist Churches in Tamaqua, Pennsylvania. In this respect special reference is made to the coal mines, the Molly Maguires, institutional violence, ethnic diversity, poverty, the railroads, economic depression, and local church history. Using a case study method, the project reflects upon the practice of a gentle style of ministry in various pastoral settings and its contribution toward overcoming obstacles to health and healing in these congregations. These settings include situations of resistance, distrust, and abuse of power. Boundary-setting and encounters with the demonic are also discussed.; The main thesis of the project is gentleness creates a supportive, gracious and sacred space in which individuals as well as congregations can feel free and safe enough to let down their protective defenses and receive the healing and health which God offers. In the sacred space created by gentleness, God is at work to heal and to enable individuals and congregations to discern their power to overcome abuse in non-abusive ways. Gentleness, as gracious respect, enables people to change their attitudes and behavior to one another, God, and the community. This gentle leadership style has the potential to heal not only church congregations but also communities and nations.