How Trends in Interpersonal Relationships Will Disrupt our Social and Business Traditions

摘要

Marriage has changed more in the past 100 years than it has in the past 10,000, and it could change more in the next 20 years than in the last 100. We are rapidly shedding traditions that emerged with the Agricultural Revolution and returning to historical patterns of sex, romance, and attachment that evolved on the grasslands of Africa millions of years ago. Beliefs in virginity at marriage, arranged marriages, the concept that men should be the sole family breadwinners, the credo that a woman's place is in the home, the double standard for adultery, and the concepts of "honor thy husband" and "until death do us part" are vanishing. "Hooking up" (the refreshed term for a one-night stand) is becoming commonplace, along with living together, bearing children out of wedlock, women-headed households, interracial marriages, homosexual weddings, commuter marriages between individuals who live apart, childless marriages, betrothals between older women and younger men, and small families.