When support becomes pressure

摘要

What is the biggest challenge of graduate school?" an undergrad asked the panel of graduate students at an event I helped organize last summer. "Not letting the support from my community turn into pressure," one panelist responded. That answer might have surprised some, who probably expected to hear about experiments that didn't work or trudging through literature reviews. But I understood exactly what she meant. The speaker was an African-American woman. I am a member of an underrepresented minority group myself, pursuing a doctoral degree in chemistry, so her comment resonated with me. With my oral candidacy exam approaching, I needed to find a way to keep well-meaning support from adding to my stress.