Take the Blame!

摘要

Taking blame gives you leverage. You'll never see someone more shocked than when you say you're sorry, it was your fault. Every time you place the blame elsewhere, you give up your power to change things. You declare yourself a victim of circumstance, of someone else's actions. All your effort goes into explaining what should have happened, and why things are the way they are. Think about situations in your life where you feel victimized by circumstances or by others. You can bemoan your fate, or take responsibility for it. Even in the most limiting conditions, you can choose.